"Cat's in the Cradle" is a 1974 folk rock song by Harry
Chapin from the album
Verities & Balderdash. The single topped the
Billboard Hot 100 in December 1974. As Chapin's only #1 hit
song, it became the best known of his work and a staple for
folk rock music.
The lyrics to the verses of the song were originally written
as a poem by Chapin's wife, Sandy Chapin, who is credited as
the song's co-writer. The poem itself was inspired by the
awkward relationship between Sandy Chapin's first husband,
James Cashmore, and his father, a New York City politician. She
was also inspired by a country song she heard on the radio.
More than a year later, after the birth of his own son, Harry
added the music and the chorus. Label executive David Geffen
selected the song as a single, over Chapin's objections.
The song is told in first-person by a father who is too busy
to spend time with his son. Though the son repeatedly asks him
to join in childhood activities, the father always responds
with little more than vague promises of spending time together
in the future, peppered with images from nursery rhymes. While
the son longs to spend time with his father, he continues to
admire his father. This shapes the son's future behavior, as
shown in the slightly-altered line
"But we'll get together then dad". The Ugly Kid Joe
cover version does not make this lyrical change but rather
alters the grammatical structure of the chorus from
"When you coming home?" / "Son, I don't know when ..."to
the final
"When you coming home, son?" / "I don't know when
..."The final verse is a reverse of the roles; where the
father asks his now grown-up son to visit, but the son responds
with his father's line. The father then reflects that they are
both alike.
The chorus refers to the following nursery rhymes:
"Cat's in the Cradle" is widely mistakenly credited to
artist Cat Stevens, in part due to a mistitled MP3 version of
the song widely circulated on the internet. As well the style
and vocals sound akin to a Cat Stevens song, and the song and
the singer both contain the word, 'Cat'. In 1977, Stevens'
former label, Deram Records released a compilation album,
Cat's Cradle. Jack Black contributed to this confusion,
playing part of the song in a
Saturday Night Livesketch where Black's character
claimed the song was by Yusuf Islam, a.k.a. Cat Stevens. There
are no known verifiable recordings of Cat Stevens performing
the song, however, and a Cat Stevens fan web site assures
readers that Stevens has never performed the song, "not live,
not in the studio, and not even privately".
The cover of the song by Ugly Kid Joe is furthermore often
confused for a cover by Guns n' Roses, a band which never
recorded the song. This is due to an incorrect MP3 circulating
on P2P networks; which contains the Ugly Kid Joe version even
though the file credits it to Guns n' Roses.